How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:28
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Have you ever been forced into bestiality?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Is it safe to say that China is at least 30 years ahead of India?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Does not procrastinate.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Has anyone ever really waited that long and gotten a paper check mailed 20 days ago?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
That's it for today.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: